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Monday, October 19, 2009

A Blessing from GOD

It is very common to say I got a blessing from God. In fact everyone has its own meaning when you say "blessing". That could be material or a very special time with someone or a word that makes you feel you are blessed by hearing it. Well, for me it's my Hubby - Steven Wayne Hess.


I could never believe that he is my husband. Well what can you do he is mine? :))

That look from his blue eyes melted me. :D


Anyway, I met him online when I was in college at http://www.bigchurch.com/. It's a christian, online dating website for everyone.They offer free membership but you can also upgrade your membership so you can talk to a lot of people.
Never even think of marrying a "kano"(foreigner) that time. I just wanted to have some fun chatting like my other classmates had. So we talked everyday on the chat and till I found myself inlove to him. I kept on telling him I was inlove with him but I never get an answered. WOW ! can you believe that I told him that I love him? A pinay would never do that because of our culture. But again I did it so many times specially when we got off the cam. Still the answer is nothing but just a cute smile from his cute face. So I was thinking if he was playing hard to get. LOL - I never knew "kanos" has that kind of attitude too. Time went on and we were still like that until I lost him for some years. I got so crazy and never knew what I did. I thought that maybe I was so fresh of telling him how much I love him that I scared him. Hahaha... I cried but I had no idea how to contact him other than yahoo messenger and hotmail accounts. He didn't gave my his address and phone numbers but he has mine. I went on with my life not expecting of him to be back someday. All I knew that time is that he was my first love and a guy that I knew we had same birthday.

I got another foreigner boyfriend and even went to the Philippines to visit me. We went to the beach to celebrate my birthday and his not that sweet guys because he didn't greeted me at all. A simple "Happy Birthday" would have made me smile but nothing. Instead, he was in hurry to go back to Manila- who knows he might have someone waiting for him there. Anyway, while I was sitting beside with this foreigner and a complete stranger at my side, I was thinking and hoping I would had a call from my first love. That guy who is celebrating his birthday same time as mine. I was wishing that he'll remember that it's our birthday. Waiting and waiting but no calls or text messages at all. But I never stop thinking about him 'cause he was so special to me the first time I met him. My mind was so confused as here's this another guy with me right now but my mind and my heart was looking for another guy.
This is the guy I am talking to that makes my heart beats so fast....


To tell you more about it I am really inlove to him. :X I remember asking my 7 year old nephew how does it feel to be inlove? He said " Falling hearts are everywhere" Amazing! a kid could tell me that feeling too. I broke up with my other boyfriend just in time that I messaged my "blessing" at hotmail. He answered right away and then we started talking again. I had so many questions for him but I never get the chance to asked him because it's all about the love that I have for him all the time we didn't had any contact. Who cares what he did the important thing is his back and he can be mine. I wasn't wrong he confessed and told me he loves me too. The time he was far away was to realize if I was really true because I was young and so miles away from him. He didn't believed that love could work in a long distance relationship. We developed the love we had that made him to be in the Philippines and married me last December 2007. The moment I hugged and kissed him at the airport is my VERY unforgettable days of my life. That's the first time that we were kicked off at the street by the security guard because we didn't realized we were in the middle of the road- LOL. He proposed on me at the Superferry back to Mindanao where my family were all waiting to meet him too.
The proposal at the Superferry. I felt so "BLESSED"............. Same time he visited is the wedding too.



FINALLY, WE were married last December 31,2007 in a very beautiful garden in Mobod, Oroquieta city.


My family and my BLESSING's family was there too to celebrate the time that we've been waiting for so long.

I just realized after all this that when you pray and wait patiently for what God would have planned for you everything will be ALL good. You'll have the BEST BLESSING as I how I got my "BLESSING" too.

Now, I don't have to celebrate my/our birthday alone. We had each other for the rest of our lives. We would never be together without GOD who blessed us with each other. Thanks to the site that links us together. Our journey ended there but will never forget that you've been our bridged to find this blessing we have right now. The blessing of a TRUE LOVE.

We applied for a petition so I can be here in the USA with my "Blessing" and finally got here last May. It is so nice to have a "blessing" in your life all the time. To make you think and feel so loved by God. The only thing you need to do is to take good care of that "Blessing" and treasure that specially He was made for you. We are both happily together and looking forward to our lives in the future and "BLESSINGS" we can have too.



Have a blessed time everyone. Thanks for dropping by...